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Look Beyond Your Wedding Day

Tuesday, August 17th, 2010

Engaged couples often spend hours and hours planning their wedding day. Details such as the invitations, cake and guest list take on considerable importance. Much research is done and options weighed all in the quest of orchestrating a “perfect” event. As couples plan this spectacular day, are they also planning for all the days to follow? Are they thinking beyond the wedding itself to essential things like wills and life insurance?

Few couples, especially those marrying young, imagine the thought of a spouse dying early on in the marriage. Addressing this possibility and strategizing accordingly may prevent financial hardship during a time of emotional devastation.

Women especially need to plan ahead financially:

They usually outlive men by 5.3 years on average.
Nearly one third of women between the ages of 65 and 74 qualify as widows.
This figure jumps significantly to over 51% as women reach age 75.
Women may become financially disadvantaged when their husbands die, for a variety of reasons. Sometimes women work part-time or even temporarily leave the work force as they juggle raising children and/or caring for aging parents. Fewer years spent working full-time outside the home affects pension accumulations and Social Security benefits. Also statistically women earn 77 cents on the dollar compared to men. This gap widens with age.

Developing solutions in advance of life’s unpredictable events may help you deal with a loss someday. Here are actions to take as you prepare for life beyond your wedding day:

Talk to your fiancé and family about your financial concerns, difficult as this may be. Perhaps schedule an appointment with a financial professional, or a family or estate attorney. Their knowledge can help you define goals, identify needs, ask the right questions and make important decisions.
Ask yourself and your partner some serious questions. Does your financial outlook consider the possibility of your spouse’s death? Do you have a will? Are your financial documents, wills, trusts organized? Do either of you have short and long-term wishes?
Draft a will. Implementing a will usually is quite time consuming even when constructed during a stress-free time in your life. There are many things to evaluate; you must think about important issues related to financial and personal matters. Perhaps as a result, 55% of Americans don’t have wills. An attorney can facilitate this process.
Learn about each other’s assets including all bank accounts, retirement plans, insurance coverage, tax returns, life and disability income insurance policies.
Develop an orderly, easy-to-access system. Store important paperwork and documents in a safe deposit box, locked file cabinet or some secure place with easy access. Make sure you both regularly update these materials.
As you and your spouse-to-be plan your special wedding day, don’t forget to also address the future beyond. Horrible as it is to think about the death of your spouse, not preparing for the possibility can make a difficult time in your life that much worse. Don’t wait to get your financial matters organized. Develop solutions for a variety of life scenarios today.

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Warning: Generation Gap Ahead

Wednesday, December 30th, 2009

“Don’t let your parents pick the band!” urges Luke. He and Victoria wanted a real rock ‘n’ roll band at their wedding. Victoria’s mother insisted (in countless answering – machine messages) that this would alienate the older guests and make them miserable. It it was up to her (it wasn’t), she’d hire a painfully standard wedding band so, as she said over and over , “everybody would be happy.” Except, of course, Luke and Victoria.

“Victoria’s mother thought it was going to be a disaster and kept trying to get us delete instrument: ‘Do they need two guitars? Do they need a saxophone? She thought it would be too loud and too much.” But as long as you have another space where people can go for quiet, Luke argues, you should get a band that rocks, if that’s what you want. The band Luke and Victoria hired was such  a hit with the guests(many of whom can recall a time when a nickle  could buy a roast beef sandwich, a side of potato salad and a Coca-Cola).

Generation gap is not that big problem on a wedding. We just have to know the likes and dislikes of each other. For example the old ones are not used to a hard music, but we can make it better by reviving the music to have a better rendition. We can’t say that we don’t like it unless we have tried to listen first.There are different genre in this world, why not try it to fit the occasion. The music should jive  to  the couple and all the guests that will be coming, because  this is a special day. Just think of your guests if they will be comfortable to it and enjoy every minute of the wedding.

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